She’s turning eleven today, quite a milestone for her, for us, as I take another step back and give her more of the independence she is seeking. As my first she’s unfortunately become my experiment in so many ways as I try to navigate my way through motherhood–how much to hold on, how much to let go. She is only eleven after all, but a mature eleven year old at that, one that has taught me countless lessons and who’s wisdom goes far beyond my own. She has been an incredible gift to me and I thank God for sending her first because not only is she an amazing example to her younger sisters, but she easily forgives and understands that this is new to both of us and we’re bound to stumble along the way. Everyday I hope and pray that learning together will be what keeps us strong.

What more can I say than I love this girl to pieces and adore her unique peaceful spirit that she so readily gives.

Happy Birthday miss Bella! I hope your day is as magical and full of goodness as you. love you lots xoxo